I have heard statements like this for many different things in people’s lives. They did something in their past and it work out for them. As a result of that, they feel that they, or their children, can do the same thing and have no ill-effects. In this case, they believe that because they went to public school and turned out okay, that they can send their children to public school and they will be okay. This is bad reasoning and just plain unbiblical.
First of all, if we do something that we ought not to do, there are always consequences. We may not see the consequences right away, or we may not even see them at all. Things that are done early in a person’s life has a ripple effect throughout their lives, and it touches their family, friends, and other influences. There are people that do drugs and drink alcohol as a teenager, stop later in life, but they still have to suffer the physical, psychological, and inter-personal affects of it. Even if something is done just one time, it still has an effect, no matter how minute it may seem. There are some that continue in these and other sins for years and decades with few consequences (as a matter of speaking), but what about those that completely destroy their lives in just a few short days, weeks, or months?
(Ecc. 8:11) “Because sentence against an evil work is not executed speedily, therefore the heart of the sons of men is fully set in them to do evil.”
Usually, when someone does something that they shouldn’t do, and they don’t get caught, they tend to try it again. Each time that they “succeed,” they become more and more bold in it. They also become more and more cold to it. The guilt soon goes away and they no longer hear the Holy Ghost whispering in their heart and conscience. Their conscience is seared with a hot iron (1 Tim. 4:2). They then don’t see anything wrong with what they did and they believe that what they did was “okay.” (By the way, there is always danger in asking “What’s wrong with _________ anyway?” The proper thing is to ask, “What is the best way according to the Bible?”)
On the other hand, those that think they turned out “okay” may not have done anything “bad.” Just as a frog is boiled by slowly turning up the temperature in a pot of water, they merely became accustomed to the evils of the public school. They see and acknowledge some of the apparent evils (violence, etc.), but they [truly] believe that the public schools are still okay. They may attest that they are not perfect, but that they are still fine.
It has been mentioned in previous posts that there are many evil’s of the public school, but the underlying one is that the foundation is all wrong. The authority behind the public schools is tied to the government, which has no Biblical authority regarding education. The government’s authority and influence in the schools has been absolutely detrimental to the entire system. While they claim to be neutral, they have definite stands against the Bible and it’s morality. They push paganism (called “humanism”) through every aspect of the school, making the schools a social breeding ground rather than an educational garden.
True, you may have survived your years in a public school, but you still received instruction promoting their pagan philosophies. It was subtly filtered in, and you received it unwittingly. You may have had the opportunity to go to a good church and receive sound Biblical teachings that helped to counter the public school’s teachings. BUT, that is the exception rather than the rule!
(1 Cor. 15:33) “Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.”
(Gal. 5:9) “A little leaven leaveneth the whole lump.”
The Bible teaches that even one bad apple can ruin an entire basket of good apples. What would happen if one good apple gets put in a basket of all bad apples? Surely the good apple wouldn’t “rub off” on the bad ones and make them good? This is what the public schools would teach, but that thought process is opposite the teachings of Scripture.
Coming through a public school “okay” is only by the grace of God. I can say this will all certainty – I went to public school up through the 9th grade, and it was only by the grace of God that I survived. It was not easy to overcome the philosophies and teachings of the world. There have been many that I have personally known that went to public school, trying to maintain their Christian testimony, only to fail and give in to the temptations (“peer pressure” is a strong force at any age, especially while young).
I am not saying that a Christian school is perfect and never has any students that “fail” as Christians. I have seen my fair share of those that attended Christian schools and still went to the world. However, the chances of “survival” are much greater in a Biblical environment (a discussion of different “Christian” schools is another matter) than in an environment that is poison at best.
You would be a fool if you believe that just because you went to public school that your children would be okay, too. Prayerfully consider these things and make the right choice for your children.
